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Grounding practices for travelers (at home or abroad)

by Marianne Elliott

Whatever kind of Gypsy Girl you are, your life involves change. Whether that change comes through travel to distant lands or the deep inner journeys of daily life at home, the one thing we can be sure of is that everything will sooner or later change.

Whether we have invited, even chosen, change or whether it arrives unbidden, even unwelcome, change comes. Change always comes. Our babies grow and change. Our bodies age and change. Our lives are transformed by birth, marriage, divorce and death. Our material fortunes come and go, our moons wax and wane.

When we travel we are consciously choosing change in our life – we change our location, our daily routines and sometimes even our time zone. Travel provides us with a great opportunity to experiment with practices that can help us stay grounded in the context of all that change.

I spent a decade traveling constantly. From 1998 until 2008 I was either traveling, living abroad or commuting long-distance (i.e. by plane). It took me most of that time to learn this, but eventually I came to understand that there were practices that could help me stay grounded even when I was on the move.

Whether your travels these days are mostly inner or outer, at home or abroad – here are some practices that can help you ground and stabilise yourself in the midst of chaos, movement and change:

  • Get a warm oil massage.
  • Take hot baths, drink warm & relaxing teas.
  • Create and maintain simple daily routines (for years mine was a morning run, then it changed to be a morning pot of coffee, now it has changed again – the content of the routine matters less than the consistency of the routine itself)
  • Invite stillness through simple relaxation techniques including restorative yoga.
  • Do some slow, easy sun salutes inviting the warmth of the sun and grounding into the support of the earth.
  • Put your hands and feet into the earth by lying on grass or gardening.

What helps you ground yourself in the midst of change and movement, whether from travel or in daily life?

Getting Ready To Say, “Yes!”

* my Mom saying, “Yes!” in Val Bavona, Switzerland

Greetings Gypsy Girls!

It’s an honor to be here with you. My name is Rebecca. I spend most of my online life at XpatAdventures and on facebook.

Offline, I have an apartment near Zurich, Switzerland (in Tina Turner’s neighborhood, which makes me sing “What’s love got to do with it?” every time I think of it) and travel globally for work and pleasure. I’m American, single, and sharing my adventures with a dog about as big as many of you.

Life wasn’t always like this.

Ten years ago I was a suburban housewife in one of those American tract housing neighborhoods with no trees. Every house was a slightly varied shade of beige or grey. It was The Truman Show in real life. The Gypsy Girl inside me – the one who’d studied romance languages in college and taken off backpacking for a month during her senior year — was silenced, stifled, suffering.

The road from there to here was not always an easy one. Travelling it is the best thing I’ve ever done.

The questions I get most often begin with how:

“How did you figure out how to move to Switzerland?”
“How do you pay your taxes?”
“How do you make friends?”
“How did you find work?”
“How can I do it, too?”

I’ve been thinking that for most people, these are not the right first questions. If you want to adventure, to marvel, to fill your life chock full of exquisite pleasures local or global… how is not the place to start.

To make sure I was onto something, I asked a friend. He’s an expat too, and works at Google in Zurich. Over lunch one day at the Googleplex (surrounded by slides and firemens’ poles, coworkers’ kids, and all sorts of free food because Google’s offices and culture are AMAZING) I ran the idea past him. In his infinite Google-recognized wisdom he said:

“How is just logistics.”

That’s what I thought, too. The genius part came next. He said:

“The real work came before that. I had to get myself ready to say, ‘Yes!’”

I knew exactly what he meant.

True Adventurers, Gypsy Girls included, must be ready to accept opportunities the Universe presents as they are presented. For some of us that means travelling lightly through life. For others, it means having a slush fund full whenever time’s freed up. For many people it means being willing to suspend fear or disbelief or whatever assumptions may be holding us back. Maybe you need to quiet the “I can’ts” that whisper in your head so you can answer “Yes!” when the time arises.

It’s January now. How about we use 2011 to get ourselves ready to say, “Yes!” What do you say?

For each of us it will look different: some of you may want to say yes to travel, others to settling down for a change, another group may want to make peace with some part of the journey so the road ahead is unobstructed. Wherever you are is fine.

Each month I’ll share a worksheet: a set of questions or activities to consider. By the end of the year our true Gypsy Girl natures should shine brightly, unleashed and ready to shout “Yes!” from the rooftops.

Here’s the first worksheet. Who’s in? Alessandra’s dream is to create a forum here, so please share your comments and experiences. We can learn from and share with one another. Maybe we could even meet up somewhere on the road.

So pleased to meet you! Thank you for traveling with me. I look forward to hearing about your adventures.

A La Carte Maps

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images via A La Carte Maps
Get the tour of their features.
“A La Carte Maps” is one of the cutest products I’ve seen in the travel market for a while. In fact it is something I’ve wished to create myself over the years. The concept is to make you feel like you have a friend in the city you are visiting, that can provide you with the most important information, as well as with those juicy insider tips!
“The front page of the map gives an overview of the city while the back page shows enlarged maps of main zones with tips. This map also includes a plan of the local public transportation system and an alphabetical street index as well.”
What I love the most though, is that the artwork on the maps is lovely (see above!) and that on top of it all, the package includes a welcome letter covering the most important notes about the city (how to get around, prices, local customs, etc.), giving it a very personal and warm touch.
Isn’t that fabulous? A La Carte Maps creators also donate 10% of their profit to a social project in each of the respective cities. They currently cover 10 exciting locations. Go on and explore!